This is something that I have been thinking of writing about for a while but haven’t quite known how to convey it. First of all, before I go on, I am not referring to any single type of event and what our reaction should be, but a more general overview on how we can approach our thoughts and subsequent actions.

I wanted to write about the idea of things ‘getting to us’ first because I wanted to acknowledge that there are situations/opinions etc. that sit uncomfortably with us and how this plays out in our minds. This discomfort can make us feel like we have to do something to feel relief. With that in mind, I understand my extroverted friends and the way that they process and understand what’s happening around them by sharing with others.

However, I wanted to share a personal, more introverted view on this. In my view, this can be seen as the passive and less caring approach – from the outside – but I wouldn’t say that’s entirely true. I am quite a reflective person, and especially when unexpected events happen, I need time to understand how it made me feel and if and/or how I’m going to respond to it. A lot of the time, if I was to say something in the moment, it would most likely be short one word responses. And I’m sure that this can apply to many other people in particular situations.

So the main point I wanted to make with this instalment is that you can’t always assume that someone isn’t taking notice or caring about an issue, but that they are maybe processing it in their own unique way and time.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and I hope you find it helpful. As always, feel free to get in touch with any questions/feedback/comments, I always love to hear it. Stay tuned for the next instalment.

Until next time
K